No other family will actually treat you like how your own family treat you. No other family will actually feels that you're 100% belongs there no matter how much they welcome you, there is still an invisible wall in between.
Only your own family will treat you as part of the family member that truly belongs to that family, and will welcome you anytime. I personally think this only applies to most of the Asian household and only few rare western household.
For those who are from an Asian household, 99% of you don't have to pay rental to your own parents or owner of the house for example grandparents. They won't ask you to divide any bills. When I say any, it basically covers electricity, water, gas, groceries and you name it, you don't need to pay it. Of course us as a children, we do give some money to our parents when we come out to the society and work. But our parents will never fix an amount of money for us to pay, because we don't PAY them, we CONTRIBUTE to the family in order to help out on daily expenses. Even if you missed out 1-2 month that you're unable to contribute or forgotten to contribute, I don't think our parents will put out their hands and ask for the money that you've "owed" them.
Agree not? Your parents won't have a go at you when you cook in the middle of the night for late night supper, never will question you when you ate something from the fridge or ask you to replace it. Won't even care how long your shower takes; is the egg that you took the older one or the newer one.
That is your true family, your OWN family. Do appreciate when you have one, because you won't find a family or household that would treat you the same way your own family treats you.
On the other hand, don't blame those families that don't treat you like your own family, because the invisible wall is build between you guys if you're not from that family. It's the nature of each family I should say.
I ♥ my family.
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