Friday, June 24, 2011

Time to blog


Yea, is time to blog! I actually have nothing much to talk about, but I just kinda feel is time to blog as I'm pretty free now, so no excuse not to eh? In case you don't know (I'm pretty sure everyone knows when I'm on holiday as I will post and share it every where telling people this) I'm a free bird for one month!!!! Hahaha! Don't you feel super lazy whenever you just finish your final? Idk, maybe is just me this lazy bump who hates studying so much, or I should say I hate, SUPER HATE exam! Duh! Anyways, it's over for this semester, so scrap it! :)

Recently, I had heard of so many relationship problems. Don't worry, is not mine, I'm talking bout others but I won't mention who. Although I have no rights in judging and commenting on how people need to handle their relationship or what is right or wrong to do, but sometimes it just triggers me and makes me wanna say WTF! LOL

I'll not blog in detail what problems that I heard, I'll just sum up my opinion. I personally feel that in a relationship, tolerance is needed. But sometimes when you are stuck in the middle like a sandwich, what will you do? Which will be the ideal choice to make, to maximize the benefit you gain, whilst minimize the hurt that  others will need to take. So sometimes, one party will be beneficial with the expenses on other party.

One more thing, as a woman, we need to protect ourselves no matter what. In this century, and in most of our love dictionary, I trust everyone is equal, no matter male or female. We're no longer living in the world of dominance men, so women DON'T HAVE to listen to everything they say. Of course, on a female side, normally their role is to respect the husband or partner, BUT, respect doesn't mean that you will take every single word  and agree on what they say and do as they told even when you know that 1 + 1 doesn't equals to 3! Protect yourself women, a man should not hurt you intentionally, no matter verbally or through actions. And of course, RUN if you met someone like this, because they just don't deserve your love!
Sad to say, I can still see this cases happen even they are just merely dating couples, not even husband and wife. Sigh! Don't come and tell me you are one of them, cause I seriously will give you a big SIGH and mentally give you a continuous slap on each side of your cheeks till you become a.... big red tomato! LOL!

Oh, I think I should just stop this love topic, as I thought I should write of something more interesting and happy. Hahaha! But I have nothing happier to blog about as I think I will be happy to continue my drama! :DDD

Happy holiday to those who are on holiday, included me =]

xo, June

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